Do you know what you're looking for? Do you know what you want? When you are with a crowd of strangers, can you tell which among are your "people"? Can you trust yourself knowing that these people are not good for you? Do you have a healthy sense of self worth? Do you see the red flags and go with your judgment? Or do the opposite and let people manipulate you, abuse you and use you? #lifetransformation #declutteryourlife
The same songs with the same old rhymes
Tell me to shake it off and swing from the lights
But I can’t help but drive away from all the mess you made
You sent this hurricane now it won’t go away
Loving you is too hard, all I do is not enough, left me hurt, I get burnt
I cannot be loving you...
Do you draw a line between you and toxic people that you meet? Do you warn them not to cross the line? What do you mean, where is the line?
It's called putting a boundary, a distance between people and situation in our lives. We think of boundaries as an imaginary line that separate us from people. When you are in crowded lift, it's normal to touch shoulders or worst close body contact with strangers. For others, they are aware of "invading my personal space." And being in a crowded close space makes these types of people uncomfortable and claustrophobic. You are invading someone else's 3 feet distance rule. #setlimits #boundaries
Do you find it hard to answer the question "what do you want?"
"I don't know".
I don't know what I want, I don't know what I want to be, what I want to have. So I let people decide for me on what I should have, should want and what I should need.
When you don't know your identity, you'll lose yourself in the crowd. You can be influenced by great and small minds. Take a pick when you are confused, it will lead you to a detours and long routes. And you will find yourself exhausting, chasing for things, questioning yourself "what should I become?" #selfworth #whatdoyouwant
We all do have bad days, bad week or just simply not in the mood for anything. I had those down times, we all do. There were times that I feel empty, hallow, lonely or I think I'm not being productive as the days go by. We procrastinate and beating ourselves. "How can you be lazy at this time?" or the opposite "I'm just waiting for an inspiration right now" but I'm wasting away. Feeling like a failure? Worthless?
Can you trust the timing of your life right now when you are at your lowest? #selflove #iamworthy
To my strong independent humans out there, let's talk about S T A N D A R D S. What are the things you tolerate and you don't tolerate? Whether in a relationship, friends and people in general. At first, I didn't know what's good and bad for me so I tolerated things that were not acceptable to me, saying yes to everything and everyone for the sake of pleasing people. I found myself stuck on a vicious cycle. "Why I keep dealing with the similar types?" #selfworth
"If only I can get a better job..
If only they will notice my talent..
I wish I can afford this and that so I can start my own business..
If only they are not giving me a hard time right now.. I wish."
Do we have many "if only" and "I wish" in our lives that we stop living in our present moment? What are we waiting for?
Are we waiting for the time to stop so we can catch up on our dreams? #itisnow #whatarewewaitingfor
We always hear about authenticity on things and people but what is the real meaning of authenticity?
According to Merriam Webster, authenticity is real or genuine : not copied or false. : true and accurate: made to be or look just like an original.
Are you original? Are you the genuine version of you? #liveauthentically
Do we live our lives like we have no direction? Are you stuck on a daily routine that you're already sick and tired of? Do you work to live? Or you live to work? Am I contributing more of the noise than peace and quiet? Does my intentions are always about me or for the good of others as well?? If you can't answer these questions yet, take time to sit with this one. How do you feel? What is your initial response? #nourishyourlife #findyourself
We hear a lot of "Finding your Purpose" talks from speakers, churches and life coaches. They have different views and inputs, it depends where they're coming from. From someone who is coming from a higher place, a place of center and balance, it will be a different view versus from someone who memorizes "moral" and "ethics", excuse me I didn't mean to disrespect these people. We all have our experiences and for each one of us is a different journey on how we found our purpose, our calling, our life. #whatisthepurposeofyourlife
The journey to self discovery is indeed a long, winding road for me. People who had the fair share of self sabotage and toxic relationships - family, friends, loved ones - thinking that they are alone, crazy or it's just "imaginary" making their own dramas. You are not alone. We are all on an imbalance state. No one is born to be mind, body and soul healthy. We have to know these parts and it's a continuous process to self worth . #mentalhealth #selflove